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第9章 How to Overcome Your Stress

What is Stress?

Stress is a reaction, physical, mental, or emotional, to demands or changes in your life. Everyone is affected by stressful situations. It is easy to acknowledge① that a major life change, such as losing one’s job or a death in the family, causes stress. One can also “be stressed” with an accumulation② of daily pressures, such as long commutes③ in traffic, a hectic④ work schedule, or disagreements with coworkers or family members. Your stress may be apparent⑤ to you and everyone else around you, or it may be hidden.

Stress, if continuous, can effect your physical, mental, and emotional well-being. The following information will help you recognize stress and learn positive coping mechanisms⑥ to reduce your risk of health problems.

Let us first take a look at what stress does to the body. When confronted⑦ by an alarming situation,our brain releases adrenaline⑧ and other chemicals which causes our heart rate and blood pressure to increase(moving blood to our muscles and brain),our breathing to become faster, our digestion to slow down, and we feel a sudden rush of energy.

When we perceive⑨ that the danger has passed, our brain stops producing the chemicals that causes the physical reactions, and our bodies return to their normal state. If we continue to react to the event, even after the event has passed, then our minds and our bodies stay in a state of alarm. If this state of tension is maintained, it can contribute to minor health problems and is thought to be associated with other more serious diseases.

Sources of Stress

The next step is to identify the sources of your stress and to write them down. Often the act of writing down your problems can be therapeutic as it may give you an opportunity to think through some possible solutions.

It will be easy for you to record your major life changes such as acquiring a new job, moving, getting divorced, losing your job. Be sure to include your daily stressors⑩ as well. Here are some examples:

Financial problems; Lack of support; Poor health; Too much work; Family problems; Out of physical shape; Boring work; Not enough leisure time; Poor diet; Commuting to work; Over/underweight; Noisy environment; Personality clashes; No direction in life.

① acknowledgevt. 承认,对……作出反应

② accumulationn. 积聚,堆积

③ commuten. 上下班交通路程

④ hecticadj. 繁忙的,忙乱的

⑤ apparentadj. 清晰可见的,明显的

⑥ mechanismn. 办法,途径,技巧

⑦ confrontvt. 迎面遇到,面临,遭遇

⑧ adrenalinen.(生化)肾上腺素

⑨ perceivevt. 感觉,察觉,意识到

⑩ stressorn. 紧张性刺激

设法对付你的重压感

重压感是什么?

重压感是一种反应,是你对生活中的需求或变化所作出的身体上、思想上或情感上的反应。生活中种种令人产生重压感的情形影响着我们每一个人。生活中的重大变化,如失业或失去亲人会使人产生重压感,这一点容易理解。可人们产生重压感也可能是日常压力的累积所致,如上下班长时间乘车、繁忙的工作安排或与同事或家人之间的分歧。你的重压感对你和你周围的人来说或许是显而易见,或许是藏而不露。

重压感如果持续的话,会影响你的身心健康和情绪状况。以下信息能帮助你了解何为重压感,并教你如何积极地去应付重压感,以减少其给你身体健康带来的影响。

首先让我们了解一下重压感会给身体健康带来什么。当我们面临惊恐的局面时,我们的大脑会释放出肾上腺素及其他化学物质。这些化学物质会导致我们心跳加速、血压增高(使血液流向我们的肌肉和大脑)、呼吸急促、消化速度放慢。我们会感到体内能量一阵快速涌流。

当我们感觉危险过去之后,我们大脑便停止释放导致身体产生反应的化学物,这样我们的身体便恢复至正常状态。但是如果在事情过去之后,我们仍持续不断地作出类似反应,那我们的大脑和身体会处于警觉状态。这种紧张状态的持续可能导致轻度的身体健康问题。据信这种状态还与其他更为严重的疾病相关。

重压感的来源

下一步是辩识重压感的来源,并将其写出来。动笔写出你的问题本身通常也是一种治疗法,因为这可以给你一个机会想出一些解决问题的办法。

把你生活中的重大变化,如找到了新工作、搬家、离婚、失业等写下来应当是件容易做到的事。但写时一定要把你的日常压力包括进去。下面是一些例子:

经济问题; 缺乏支持; 身体虚弱; 工作过多; 家庭问题; 身材不好; 枯燥的工作; 无足够的闲暇; 不良的饮食; 长距离乘车上下班; 过胖/过瘦; 吵闹的环境; 性格的冲突; 生活无目标。