书城两性关系同性恋与法
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Thereisnoconcretedataonhowmanygaysthereareintheworld.Atonepoint,theKinseyInstituteforsexualitystudiesintheUnitedStatessuggestedthatgaysandlesbiansmakeuptenpercentofanygivenpopulation.StudiesconductedtodeterminethenumberofgaysandlesbiansintheUnitedStatesandGreatBritainhavefounddifferentresultsdependingonhowtheterm“homosexuality”wasdefined.Itisalsoverydifficulttocountthenumberofgaysandlesbiansinsomeplacesbecausetheymaynotbeopenabouttheirsexualorientation.Arecentstudybyoneorganizationbaseditsnumbersofthe2000UnitedStatesCensusandvoterregistrationinformationforelections.TheorganizationfoundthatgaysandlesbianscompriseapproximatelyfivepercentoftheUnitedStatespopulationoraround10.5millionpeople.

Itisgenerallyknownthathomosexualshaveexistedthroughouthistoryinnearlyeverysociety.Whilesomenationsmaydenytheexistenceofgaysandlesbiansintheirpopulations,mostresearchersbelievethatthisishighlyunlikely.

6.WhatisthedifferencebetweenthetermsLGBT,gay,lesbian,homosexualandqueer?

TheacronymLGBTrefersto“Lesbian,Gay,Bisexual,andTransgender”.Thetermhomosexualisamoretechnicalterm,andsomebelievethatitcarriesnegativeconnotations.Forthisreason,manyprefernottobecalled“homosexuals”.Theword“gay”cansometimesbeusedtorefertoonlyhomosexualmales,butithasalsobeenusedtorefermorebroadlytobothhomosexualmenandwomen.Theterm“Lesbian”refersexclusivelytohomosexualwomen.Theterm“queer”hasabroadermeaning,includingtransgenderandbisexualindividuals,andisusedtorefertobothmenandwomen.Theterm“queer”,however,maybeinsultingtosomegaysandlesbians.Itisatermthathasbeenandisstillusedinaderogatorymanner.Despitethis,somegaysandlesbiansnowusethetermasasymbolofprideintheirsexualorientation.

7.Howdoyouknowyouaregay?

Despitestereotypesandprejudices,therearenosignsormannerismsthateasilyidentifyapersonasbeinggay.Agaymanisnotnecessarilyeffeminate,andalesbiandoesnotnecessarilydisplayso-calledmasculinecharacteristics.Theywillnotwearcertainclothesorbehaveincertainways.Forthesereasons,anindividual’ssexualorientationismostofteninvisibletothegeneralpublic.

Apersonisgayifhe/sheissexuallyattractedtomembersofthesamesex.However,itisoftenverydifficultforpeopletoaddress,identify,andcategorizetheirsexualfeelings.

Somemaynotknowandacknowledgethattheyaregayeveniftheydofindthemselvessexuallyattractedtomembersoftheirsex.Manypeoplebegintofeelattractiontomembersofthesamesexduringadolescence,butmaynotidentifyasgayuntilyearslater.Oftenbecauseofintensesocialpressuretobeheterosexual,manypeoplewhohavehomosexualtendenciesmaynotidentifythemselvesasgayuntilaftermarriage,andmanyneverdoatall.

8.Whatis“comingout”?

“Comingout”istheprocessofidentifyingoneselfasagayman,lesbian,orbisexual.Besidestellingothers,eitherallatonceorgradually,anothersignificantpartofcomingoutisanindividual’srecognitionofhisorherownsexualorientation.“Comingout”canhappenatanytime,andmanypeopledonotcomeoutuntilmuchlaterinlife.Itis,however,veryimportantforgaysandlesbianstocomeoutbecauseithelpsthemtoaccepttheirownidentityandhelpstheirfriendsandrelativestounderstandthatgaymenandwomenincludethosenormal,happy,andhealthyindividualsthattheyassociatewithonadailybasis.“Comingout”canbeadifficultprocessforanindividual,anditisimportantthattheirfriendsandfamilyprovidesupportduringthattime.

9.Ishomosexualityadisease?

No,homosexualityisnolongerregularlyconsideredadisease.TheAmericanPsychiatricAssociationremovedhomosexualityfromthefourtheditionDiagnosticandStatisticalManualofMentalDisorders.MostpeopleintheUnitedStatesdonotviewhomosexualityasadiseaseatallanymore,althoughtheymayhaveinthepast.Othercountries,suchastheUnitedKingdom,andInternationalorganizations,suchastheWorldHealthOrganizationoftheUnitedNations,havedeclassifiedhomosexualityasamentalillnessaswell.

10.Istransgenderadisease?

Transgenderindividualsarestillconsideredtosufferfromamentalconditionknownas“genderidentitydisorder.”ThisclassificationislistedinthemostrecentversionoftheDiagnosticandStatisticalManualofMentalDisorders.Manydoctors,scholars,andotheractivistswouldliketoseethedefinitionofgenderidentitydisorderremovedfromtheManualbecauseoftheunnecessarystigmathatitattachestotransgenderindividuals.

11.Whatcauseshomosexuality?

Thecauseofanindividual’sisgenerallyunknown.Althoughsomebelievehomosexualitytobeachoice,mostbelieveittobeaproductofanindividual’sgeneticmakeup,upbringingandenvironmentalinfluences,orsomecombinationofthetwo.Whilethereismoreandstrongerevidencethathomosexualityisageneticphenomenon,thisevidenceisnotyetabsolutelyconclusive.Mostpeoplenowunderstandthathomosexualityisneitheracontagiousdiseasenorsomethingthatcanbeconsciouslytaughttoanotherperson.However,manynowagreethat,regardlessofwhetherhomosexualityisaproductofenvironmentorgenetics,homosexualsshouldbetreatedwithdignityandrespectandnotsubjecttopersecutionordiscrimination.

12.Canyouchoosetobegay?

No.One’ssexualorientationisnotaconsciouschoice;onecannotanddoesnotchoosetobegayanymorethanstraightpeoplecanchoosetobestraight.Peoplecan,however,choosenottoactontheirsexualfeelingsordenytheirsexualorientation.Still,itisdifficult,ifnotimpossible,foragaypersontohaveahappy,fulfillinglifeifheorshedeniestheirtruefeelings.

13.Cantherapychangehomosexuality?