Manystates,includingtheUnitedStatesandChina,haveremovedornolongerenforcetheirprohibitionsagainsthomosexualsexualconduct.TheUnitedStatesSupremeCourtinthecaseLawrencev.Texasrecentlyexplicitlyprohibitedlocalgovernmentsfromcriminalizingprivate,consensual,adultsame-sexsexualbehavior.AEuropeanCourtmadeasimilarstatementinthecaseDudgeonv.UK,andtheacommitteeoftheUnitedNationsstruckdownalocallawprohibitinghomosexualbehaviorinthecaseToonanv.Australia.
19.Whydogaysneedorwanttherighttomarry?
Gaysandlesbiansneedtherighttomarrybecauseofthevarietyofbenefitsrelatedtotaxes,property,healthcare,anddifferenttypesofinsurancethatcomewithmarriageunderthelaw.However,gaysandlesbianswanttherighttomarrybecause,asagroup,theyseekequalrecognitionoftheirlongtermrelationshipsunderthelaw.Itisaquestionofequaltreatmentforhomosexualandheterosexualpeople.
Thereareover3.1milliongaysandlesbiansinlongtermrelationshipsintheUnitedStates.Withouttherighttomarry,gaysandlesbianshavehadtofacenumeroushardships.Manyhavebeendeniedpermissiontosaygoodbyetoadyingpartnerinthehospitalandlostaccesstoinheritanceandretirementbenefits.IntheUnitedStates,therearemorethan1,100federalbenefitsandprotectionsthatcomewithmarriagethatarecategoricallydeniedtogaycouples,eventhosewhohavebeentogetherforover40years.
20.Whatisacivilunion?
Acivilunionisonemethodofgivinglegalrecognitionandprotectiontotherelationshipoftwopeople.Thistypeofarrangementcanvaryfromplacetoplace,butusuallyinvolvessomesortofrightsvis-a-visthirdpartiesandrightsofthetwopartnersvis-a-viseachother.Theserightscanincludehospitalvisitationrights,inheritancerights,andrightstohealthcareandpensionbenefits,amongmanyothers.NumerouscountriesaroundtheworldandstatesintheUnitedStateshaveemployedcivilunionsasatechniquetoprotectsame-sexcouplesandavoidmanyofthesignificantinjusticesthatcanresultwhenthelawprovidesnoprotectionforthelong-termrelationshipoftwopeople.
21.Isacivilunionthesamethingasamarriage?
Whileacivilunioncanprovideessentiallegalprotectionforgaysandlesbians,itisnotthesamethingasmarriage.Eventhoughacivilunionmightoffergayandlesbiancouplessimilarbenefits,marriagecarriesastatusasaninstitutionthroughoutworldhistorythataciviluniondoesnot.Toallowgaysandlesbianstoenterintocivilunionsordomesticpartnerships,whilerestrictingthemfrommarriageisnot“equal”inthesensethatthewordisusuallyusedunderthelaw.Somehavearguedthatrestrictinggaysandlesbianstocivilunionswouldstigmatizetheirrelationshipsaslessimportantthatheterosexualrelationships.ThisfactorwasimportanttotheMassachusettsSupremeCourtindeterminingthatabanongaymarriageviolatedtheequalprotectionclauseoftheMassachusettsConstitution.Inordertomaintainequality,itisimportantforbothheterosexualandhomosexualcouplestobeabletoenterintomarriages,civilunions,anddomesticpartnershipswithoutsexualorientation-basedrestrictions.
22.Dogayparentsmakegaychildren?
Exposuretohomosexualityatayoungagedoesnotmeanthatachildwillbecomegay.
Also,studieshaveshownthatthechildrenofsame-sexcouplesarenotmorelikelytoidentifyasgaylaterinlifethanchildrenofheterosexualcouples.Finally,despitesomeevidenceforgeneticcausesofhomosexuality,thereisnoevidencetosuggestthatthesexualorientationofbiologicalparentwillnecessarilybepasseddowntothechild.
23.Shouldgaysbeallowedtoadoptchildren?
Manypeopleallovertheworldbelievethathomosexualscanandshouldbeallowedtoadoptchildren.AllofthecountriesinEurope,Canada,andsomestatesintheUnitedStatespermithomosexualstoadoptchildren,andtherearemillionsofchildrenthroughouttheworldwhoarebeingraisedbygayparents.Placesthatdonotallowgaymenandwomentoadoptwilloftenallowthemtobecomefosterparentsortemporaryguardiansofchildrenbeforetheyareadoptedbyanotherfamily.
Thereare,however,manyopponentsofgayadoption.Somestateshavespecificallyprohibitedgaymenandwomenfromonthebasisthatitisbetterforchildrentoberaisedbyamotherandafather.Studieshaveshownthatthereislittletruthtothiscontentionandthatchildrenraisedbygayparentsdojustaswellsocially,developmentally,andacademicallyaschildrenraisedbytwoheterosexualparents.Unfortunately,opponentsofgayadoptionoftenbelieveitwouldbebetterforchildrentoremaininorphanagesthanwithgayandlesbianparents.Insomecases,gayandlesbianparentshaveactuallyhadtheirchildrentakenfromthem,aneventwhichhashadseriousemotionalconsequencesforthechild.
24.Isprotectinggaysunderthelawgivingthemspecialprotections?
No,anti-discriminationprotectionsunderthelawforgaysandlesbiansdonotamounttoanyspecialbenefit.Althoughsomearguethatmanygaysandlesbiansarenotdisadvantagedeconomicallyorsocially,moreadvancedresearchandstudiesshowthatthisisnottrue.Gaymenandwomenoftenfaceirrational,andsometimessevere,prejudicefromothermembersofsocietythatimpedestheirabilitytoholdajob,formafamily,andevenobtainpropereducationandhealthcare.Aswithotherdisadvantagedorvulnerablegroupsinsociety,sometimesitisnecessaryforcertainlawstohavespecificprotectionsforgaysandlesbians.Forexample,employmentdiscriminationlawsinmanystatesintheUnitedStatesandcountriesinEuropeprohibitemployersfrommakinganydecisionexplicitlyorimplicitlyonthebasisofanindividual’ssexualorientation.