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第39章 以爱之名 (12)

Marry a man/woman you love to talk to. As you get older, their conversational skills will be as important as any other.

Spend some time alone.

Open your arms to change, but don’ t let go of your values.

Remember that silence is sometimes the best answer.

Read more books and watch less TV.

Live a good, honorable life. Then when you get older and think back, you’ ll get to enjoy it a second time.

Trust in God but lock your car.

A loving atmosphere in your home is so important. Do all you can to create a tranquil harmonious home.

In disagreements with loved ones, deal with the current situation.

Don’ t bring up the past.

Read between the lines.

Pray. There’ s immeasurable power in it.

Never interrupt when you are being flattered .

Mind your own business.

Don’ t trust a man/woman who doesn’ t close his/her eyes when you kiss.

Once a year, go someplace you’ ve never been before.

If you make a lot of money, put it to use helping others while you are living. That is wealth’ s greatest satisfaction.

Remember that not getting what you want is sometimes a stroke of luck.

Remember that the best relationship is one where your love for each other is greater than your need for each other.

Judge your success by what you have done compared to what you could have done, not to what others have done with their abilities.Approach love and cooking with reckless abandon.

给予人们比他们自己预期的更多,并且欣然为之。

牢记你最爱的诗歌。

不要相信你所听来的一切;也不要耗尽你所拥有的一切;更不要将时间都浪费在睡眠上。

说“我爱你”时,要满怀诚意。

说“对不起”时,要注视对方的眼睛。

至少在订婚半年后再结婚。

笃信一见钟情。

对别人的梦想不妄加嘲讽,没有梦想的人不会拥有很多。

全心投入地去爱。或许你会受到伤害,可是,这却是使人生完整的唯一途径。

意见相悖时,要公正地争论,切不可大吵大嚷。

不要以一个人的亲戚来评判此人。

说话语速宜慢,但反应要快。

当有人问及你不想回答的问题时,要笑问对方:“为何想知道答案?”

谨记:不朽的爱情和伟大的成就都要冒巨大风险才可获得。

多打电话问候父母。

听到某人打喷嚏时,要说:“上帝保佑你。”

失败时,要记得汲取教训。

铭记“三个”原则,即:尊重自己,尊重他人,对自己的行为负责。

不可因小事而伤害友谊。

一旦意识到自己犯了错误,就要及时采取措施予以补救。

接听电话要保持微笑,因为对方可以从你的声音感受到你的热情。

与有共同语言的人结为夫妻。那样在你年老时,就会发觉有共同的话题比其他任何事情都更为重要。

给自己留些独处的时间。

勇于改变,但切不可放弃你的价值观。

记住,有时沉默是最好的回答。

多读书,少看电视。

过一种优质而高尚的生活。那样,当你逐渐老去,回首往事时,才会再次体味到生命的意义。

相信上帝,但要锁好你的车。

爱的氛围对一个家是何等重要,努力营造一个温馨和睦的家吧。

与至爱的人意见相左时,要恰当处理当前事态。

不要总翻旧账,过去的就让它过去吧。

要透过现象看事情的本质。

经常祈祷,它会使你力量倍增。

不要打断别人对你的溢美之言。

管好自己的事儿。

不可相信睁眼接受你亲吻的人。

一年当中,去一次你从未去过的地方。

倘若你发了财,要在有生之年用这些钱去帮助别人。

这是财富最伟大的满足。

谨记:塞翁失马,焉知非福?

谨记:伟大的友情往往都是付出得多,索取得少。

判断一个人成功与否,要将他的办事能力与实际结果予以比较;而不是将他与别人作比较。要想得到情爱和食粮,就要不吝舍弃。

心灵小语

你的能力有多大,成功就有多大。要想得到更多的回报,就要不吝舍弃。所谓“鱼与熊掌,不可兼得”,要想获得更大的胜利,就要适时放弃其他事情,懂得分清主次,这样才可以做好更大的事情!

记忆填空

1. Don’t____all you hear, spend all you have or sleep all you want.

When you say, “I love you”____ it.

When you say, “I’m sorry”, look the person in the____ .

Be engaged at____ six months before you get married.

2. Spend some time____ .

Open your arms to change, but don’t let go of your____ .

Remember that____ is sometimes the best answer.

Read more____ and watch less TV. 佳句翻译

1. 给予他们比他们自己预期的更多,并且欣然为之。

译__________________________

2. 至少在订婚半年后再结婚。

译__________________________

3. 给自己留些独处的时间。

译__________________________

短语应用

1. Believe in love at first sight.

love at first sight:一见钟情

造________________________

2. In disagreements with loved ones, deal with the current situation.

deal with:论述;涉及;处理

造________________________

你应当知道的智慧箴言

Moving Thoughts

佚名 / Anonymous

Maybe God wants us to meet a few wrong people before meeting the right one so that when we finally meet the right person, we will know how to be grateful for that gift.

When the door of happiness closes, another opens, but often times we look so long at the closed door that we don’ t see the one which has been opened for us.

The best kind of friend is the kind you can sit on a porch and swing with, never say a word, and then walk away feeling like it was the best conversation you’ ve ever had.

It’ s true that we don’ t know what we’ ve got until we lose it, but it’ s also true that we don’ t know what we’ ve been missing until it arrives.

Giving someone all your love is never an assurance that they’ ll love you back! Don’ t expect love in return; just wait for it to grow in their heart but if it doesn’ t, be content it grew in yours. It takes only a minute to get a crash on someone, an hour to like someone, and a day to love someone, but it takes a lifetime to forget someone.

Don’ t go for looks; they can deceive. Don’ t go for wealth; even that fades away. Go for someone who makes you smile because it takes only a smile to make a dark day seem bright. Find the one that makes your heart smile.

There are moments in life when you miss someone so much that you just want to pick them from your dreams and hug them for real!

Dream what you want to dream; go where you want to go; be what you want to be, because you have only one life and one chance to do all the things you want to do.

May you have enough happiness to make you sweet, enough trials to make you strong, enough sorrow to keep you human, enough hope to make you happy.

Always put yourself in others’ shoes. If you feel that it hurts you, it probably hurts the other person, too.

The happiest people don’ t necessarily have the best of everything; they just make the most of everything that comes along their way.

Happiness lies for those who cry, those who hurt, those who have searched, and those who have tried, for only they can appreciate the importance of people who have touched their lives.

Love begins with a smile, grows with a kiss and ends with a tear.