American Situational
Conversations
1 Introductions and Opening
Conversations
介绍和开场白
People in the United States don，t always shake hands when they are introduced to one another. However， in a formal or business situation people almost always shake hands.
1.A： Mary， this is Joe，s brother David.
B； I，m very glad to meet you.
C： It，s a pleasure to meet you.
B： How do you like Texas so far？
C： It，s really different from what I expected.
B： Don，t worry. You，ll get used to it in no time.
2. A： Mrs. Smith， I，d like to introduce a friend of mine， Pierre Dubois.
B： How do you do？
C： Hello.
B： What，s your impression of the United States？
C： Well， I can，t get over how different the weather is here.
B： Oh， you，ll get used to it soon！
3. A： Wendy， I，d like you to meet my brother Sam.
B： Hi.
C： Nice to meet you.
B： What do you think of Dallas？
C： Well， I，m still feeling a little homesick and so many things seem strange to me.
B： You，re bound to feel that way at first， I guess.
4. A： Mrs.Hughs， this is Peter Brown.
B： Pleased to meet you.
C： How do you do？
B： I hope you，re enjoying your stay here.
C： If it weren，t for the climate， I，d like it here very much.
B： It always takes time to get used to a new place.
2. Special Greetings
节假日的问候
There are eight national holidays celebrated in the United States： New Year，s Day(Jan.)， Washington，s Birthday (Feb.)， Memorial Day(May)， the Fourth of July， Labor Day(Sep.)，Veteran，s Day(Nav.)，Thanksgiving(Nov.) and Christmas(Dec.)， In addition， there are many state and local holidays.
1. A： Merry Christmas！
B： The same to you！
A： Are you doing anything special？
B： We，re having some friends over. What are you doing？
A： Oh， I，m just going to take it easy.
2. A： Happy New Year！
B： Thank you！ Same to you.
A： Have you got any plans？
B： I，ve been invited over to la friend，s. And you？
A： My roommate，s having a party.
3. A： Have a nice Thanksgiving！
B： Same to you！
A： Are you going anywhere？
B： I thought about going to my sister，s. How about you？
A： Oh， I，ll probably just stay at home.
4. A： Have a nice weekend！
B： Thanks. You too！
A： Do you have any plans？
B： Well， my family，s away and I can，t afford to do much. What about you？
A： Oh， I haven，t decided what I，m going to do yet.
3. Meeting Old Friends
老友重逢
Many people shake hands when meeting after they haven，t seen each other for a long time.
1. A： I haven，t seen you for ages. You haven，t been sick， have you？
B： No， I，ve been in California for the past month.
A： How nice. Where were you exactly？
B： San Diego. I got back yesterday.
2. A： It，s nice to see you again. Have you changed jobs？
B： No， I，ve been visiting relatives.
A： That，s nice. Where？
B： I went to visit an uncle of mine in San Francisco.
3. A： You haven，t been around much lately， have you？
B： No， I，ve been away on vacation.
A： Oh？ Where were you？
B： Palm Springs. I，ve got a cousin there.
4. A： Well， hello， stranger！ Have you moved or something？
B： No， I went to California for a few weeks.
A： Oh， really？ Where did you go？
B： Los Angeles. I stayed with my brother.
4. Saying Goodbye
告别
When you，re far from friends and family， you can keep in touch with them by letters， post cards， short notes or phone calls.
1. A： I，ve come to say goodbye.
B： When are you off？
A： I，m flying home on Sunday afternoon.
B： Well， goodbye. See you soon.
A： Please don，t forget to say goodbye to the rest of the family for me.
2. A： I，d like to say goodbye to everyone.
B： What time are you going？
A： My plane leaves at 7∶25.
B； Well， goodbye and have a good trip！
A： Goodbye. Remember to look me up if you，re ever in Washington.
3. A； I，m calling to say goodbye.
B： When do you leave？
A： I，m catching the 11∶00 train.
B： Take care of yourself and don，t forget to keep in touch.
A： Goodbye. Thanks again for everything.
4. A： I just dropped in to say goodbye.
B： What time are you leaving？
A： I，m going to try to leave by 10∶00.
B： Take care and give my best to your parents.
A： Goodbye. Hope to see you again next year.
5. Asking Favors
求助
When you ask for things， it is important to be polite. The intonation that you use in making your request is as important as what you actually say. When you think someone will refuse your request， you can ask the question in such a way that the refusal does not cause embarrassment.
1. A： Is there any chance of my borrowing your typewriter？
B： For how long？
A： Until the end of the week.
B： Yes， I guess that would be all right.
2. A： Would you mind if I borrowed your car？
B： Well， when exactly？
A： Until Monday or Tuesday of next week.
B： I，m sorry， but it，s just not possible.
3. A： Do you think you could lend me some of your records？
B： Until when？
A： Oh， just over the holidays.
B： I，m not sure. I，ll have to think about it.
4. A： I was wondering if you，d let me stay with you for a few days.
B： It really depends on when.
A： Until next weekend， if that，s OK.
B： Let me think it over， and I，ll let you know later.
6. Giving Compliments
赞美
Friends often compliment one another on clothes， especially if the clothes are new.
1. A： What a beautiful sweater！
B： Do you think it looks good on me？
A： Yes， and it goes beautifully with your pants.
B： You won，t believe it， but it was really cheap.
A： I wish I could find one just like it.
2. A： I like your new coat.
B： Do you think it fits OK？
A： Yes. It looks terrific！
B： I bought it at half price.
A： You were lucky to find it.
3. A： That，s a very nice jacket.
B： Does it really look OK？
A： Yes， and I like the color too. It matches your hat.
B： And I got it on sale.
A： That，s incredible！
4. A： I love that shirt.
B： Do you really like it？
A： Yes， it fits perfectly.
B： It wasn，t very expensive either.
A： That，s amazing！ It sure looks expensive.
7. Apologizing
道歉
Sometimes it is necessary to tell someone bad news gently.
1. A： I，m afraid I spilled coffee on the tablecloth.
B： Oh， don，t worry about it.
A： I want to apologize. Is there anything I can do？
B： Just forget about it. I never did like it anyway.
2. A： I，m really sorry， but I seem to have misplaced your scarf.
B： Oh， that，s all right.
A： I，m very sorry. Can I get you another one？
B： No. Forget about it. It，s not important.
3. A： I，m sorry， but I can，t find the book you lent me.
B： That，s OK.
A： I really feel bad about it. Let me buy you a new one.
B： No. Don，t be silly. I wouldn，t dream of letting you do that.
4. A： I feel terrible， but I，ve just broken your ashtray.
B： It，s nothing to get upset about.
A： I don，t know what to say. I，d like to replace it.
B： No. It，s out of the question.
8. Complaining
抱怨
It，s a good idea to be as polite as possible even when complaining about something.
1. A： I wish you wouldn，t play the TV so loudly.
B： Sorry. Where you trying to sleep？
A： Yes， And while I think of it， please ask when you want to borrow my records.
B： I，m sorry. You，re right. I should have asked.